One of my most recently "found" cousins lives in Canada (as do several others). She is a third cousin, we share a common set of great-great grandparents. Her grandfather, who was a first cousin of my grandfather, emigrated to Canada around 1912, as did one of my grandfather's brothers. I have already got in touch with the descendants of my great-uncle Robert, but it is wonderful to have found another shoot of the family tree.
My "new" cousin asked for my help this weekend in tracing her grandmother's family. Like me, she doesn't have an international membership for Ancestry - it can get expensive if you just need to check out the occasional record. I am so glad that she did ask, it's been an intriguing weekend!
Her grandmother grew up away from her birth family, the story being that she was given as a servant to a grocer and his wife, her own family having too many children. The reality is turning out to be rather different. From the looks of things, she did go to live with a couple, who indeed owned a grocery business, but there is no question that she was a servant. At first she is described as a "visitor" on the census, but later as "niece". I think that the couple regarded her as family, but perhaps she stayed in touch with her own family, so it stopped short of a formal adoption.
There may be a further dimension; she had a much older sister, 16 years her senior. This woman didn't marry until her early thirties and then she and her husband emigrated to Canada. Her younger sister also emigrated a couple of years later, her adopted family having died. She married my grandfather's cousin soon after arriving in Canada. I wonder if perhaps the sister was in fact the mother and that is why the family gave the girl up. It wasn't unknown for the parents of a young woman who had a child out of wedlock to pass the child off as their own. Maybe this was the case. Or maybe not!